There’s a lot to be said for the joy the holidays bring – or any celebration, for that matter. Whether it be a birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas or a reunion, the ease of the conversation, the steady flow of wine, the melodic sound of laughter and the joy of being with a close-knit group of people is unequalled. There is an undefined comfort level that allows us to become absorbed in the festivities that surround us. The fact that we can gorge ourselves and have an excuse to eat everything in sight with only a few fleeting moments of guilt is sublime.
The molecules change in the room when family and friends get together for a holiday celebration. There is something intrinsically sacred about holidays and the memories that are created within those moments. Time has a way of strategically obliterating those precious seconds as it marches on at a frantic pace, but our shared memories have a way of stopping that clock, if only for a few moments.
Holidays are a portal. They can freeze time and create a vortex that allows us to travel back and relive certain periods in our lives. The memories wrap themselves around us like a blanket and soothe us with the warmth of the times that have engaged us and truly breathe a bit of life back into our frenzied lives.
Although many holidays have passed and are collecting dust in the books of my hallowed history, watching my brother “float” his dinner in gravy brings back a rush of nostalgia, and that, to me, is what the holidays are truly about….personal moments that any other person would find arbitrary but, to me, define my holiday experience.
Our Canadian Thanksgiving has come and almost gone and the only glaring items that were missing, as always, were my mom and dad. I know they were with us in spirit, especially during the making of my brother’s always-spectacular turkey dinner. And I know my mom was smiling down on our dinner knowing that my brother nailed her stuffing recipe this year!
Embrace your family, enjoy the moments and get stuffed with the memories your family helps to create. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.