Words have always been a passion of mine. I can remember penning poems before my age was in the double digits and I loved to lose myself in books at a young age as well. Having said this, it shouldn’t come as a surprise to me that words affect many others the same way they affect me but today I was shown a glaring example of how words, my words, had a greater resonance than I ever imagined.
On August 30th, I wrote this poem (click here) about a dear friend who had gone into hospital the previous night. Writing, especially writing poetry, is very cathartic for me and allows me to deal with my emotion on a level on which I feel very comfortable. I had given the poem to the companion of the woman who was the subject of the poem hoping he could read it to her in the hospital.
Sadly, a week after she went into hospital, she passed away from a virulent bacterial infection that her body couldn’t fight due to the aggressive chemotherapy she had been undergoing. I never found out if he had read the poem to her while she was still conscious.
Today, I drove to the city with my friend and co-worker to attend the celebration of life for this dear woman we both had met at the lodge and absolutely adored. When her companion, Sandy, saw us at the golf club, his eyes welled with tears and we were both met with a warm embrace. He invited us to sit at his family table and treated us like we were a part of his family. After a toast to Joan and some funny stories, I found out that Sandy had read my poem at her funeral service. I was moved to tears.
As I write this post through many more tears, I can take great pride in knowing that my words fell onto the ears of so many others who loved her as well. One simple night of pouring out my emotion into a blog post turned into a tribute that hundreds of people were able to hear and know how much she meant to me. Words have connected me to her friends and family and for that I will be forever grateful.