Taken far too soon

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I lost a friend on Tuesday. I had only known her for a little over two years, but I knew her well enough to know she could aptly be described as a spark plug. She was certainly a person who energized, inspired, and animated every room she was in.

In the short time I knew Lee, I had never seen her in a bad mood. Sure, there were days when she came to work feeling a little less than her usual chipper self, but she never let that affect the outcome of her day. And by the time she had eased into her routine, that infectious smile and her zest for life filled every room she entered.

There was never a dull breakfast service when she was “toast master”. I could hear the laughter in the kitchen through the walls of my office, and when I went in to see what was happening, Lee would be dancing behind the line and bringing everyone up to her level of light. That’s what she did. She radiated it. It shone through her. And she shared that beautiful light with everyone.

The fact I am so affected by her passing after knowing her for such a short time says a lot about her character, and who she was as a human being. Following the outpouring of posts about her passing on social media, I know many others, who have known her for much longer, feel the same deep sense of loss that I feel.

Lee Lee, I will miss hearing the familiar sound of you saying ‘hey, hey’ in the morning when you came into the office. I will miss hearing you say, ‘I love this song’ every time a new song came on. And, most importantly, I will miss you. I didn’t know you for a long time, but I knew you well enough to know what a special person you were, and how different my life will be without you in it.

One thought on “Taken far too soon

  1. I offer sincere condolences. The phrase that is churned out en masse whenever anyone dies who will be missed. But it is a truth when there are so very few that fit or can be offered without knowing the person who has died. I have people I miss still. There are tangential losses it still hurts to remember–oh, that favorite actor from my childhood is gone!? That person I saw every time I went to XYZ has passed. It is so hard to acknowledge the mortality of our lives, that every reminder is tied to the ones you have known before. Your first death–a family member no doubt–and the realization that your chance to know them better is gone. (Sorry, I always see things by how they affect me first.) Then I realize, the whole world has missed their chance to know that person. And then I am sad for the world. Especially when it is a startling light of humanity, which is how Lee sounds when you write of her. Carry her light with you. Try to emulate, but never replace her joy in the world. It is a way for Lee to live on! Until you can feel her joy again, miss her for the light lost that she is.

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