Everyone is entitled to have a lazy day every once in a while. It recharges our batteries and gives us a much-needed to chance to store up the energy needed to face the days that follow it. Sometimes we just feel unproductive and unmotivated – and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, within reason. If your lazy days start turning into lazy weeks, you may want to rethink your strategy.
I used to have a real problem letting myself sit and do nothing. My brain always kicked into the guilt gear and I was forced to get off the couch and do all the things that were nagging at me from the back of my cranium. I’m over that. I am now able to embrace the feeling of not accomplishing a single thing. There certainly are moments of boredom encompassed in that lazy day, but if I take that moment to remember the fast pace of any other day, that boredom is replaced by bliss.
The lazy day becomes about taking time for me and not stressing myself out if the laundry doesn’t get sorted or the dust accumulates for one more day. Although today was not a completely lazy day. After giving myself permission to actually sleep in, I did clean the house and I vacuumed the inordinate amount of dog hair from my carpet that seems to increase exponentially!! But the rest of it was spent in a suspended state of oblivion…..and it was just what the doctor ordered. I focused on what I needed instead of what needed to be done.
Those rest of those chores will still be beckoning for me tomorrow, but for today, the deck furniture and the couch won the argument. Today is about my three favorite “R” activities – reading, red wine and regurgitating the countless words that whirl around in my brain. (there may be a movie thrown in for good measure)
I hope you all take the time to let yourself breathe – spend a lazy day doing the little things that make you feel human again. And if you have any suggestions for things to do on that day of nothingness…..feel free to send along some suggestions…..I’m always looking for new ways to achieve lethargy!!