Once upon a time I had a cake decorating business that I ran from my home. I made wedding cakes and novelty cakes and I really loved the creative escape….not to mention the fantastic smell in my house.
I slowly phased myself out of that cake business because “real life” didn’t want to make room for the enjoyable moments of, not only creating extra income but, embracing another journey of artistic freedom. But I’ve missed it. And I knew I missed it but I didn’t realize how much until I agreed to make a cake for a 50th birthday party this weekend. The birthday girl loves sailing and this was the cake I made for her surprise party.
Just spending the last two days in the kitchen reminded me how one avenue of imagination can create a wider road of happiness. This is one of my true passions and I made the mistake of ignoring it. I put obligation and responsibility ahead of creativity and contentment. And if the picture of the cake above wasn’t enough to make me rethink my decision…..
….the photograph of the rapidly disappearing remains of the cake certainly solidified my decision to put up my sign that I am back in the cake business.
Sometimes having to make a choice is difficult. Sometimes we think we are doing what is best but maybe the best thing is to hang on to the things we really love and throw the rules out the window. Life it too short to make decisions based on what we think we should do instead of making decisions based on what we really want.