We all seek perfection – it is the pot of gold at the end of the proverbial rainbow. But perfection is an elusive goal. Realistically, if we take a step back and truly ascertain what we are trying to achieve, the end result would be excellence. Perfection may present itself on test scores, but the culmination of our efforts in life will never be the absolute perfection that we seek.
There will always be one missing piece in the puzzle of life that impedes us from reaching that desired goal of true perfection. If we analyse the bigger picture, we can still see what that portrait was meant to convey, and it may be the closest we get to the precision we sought in the first place.
Perfection is subjective. What may seem perfect to you may have glaring inadequacies to another set of eyes. On the other end of that spectrum, what others see as true beauty, you may find to be marred with flaws. I used to bake wedding cakes. I would spend tedious hours icing and decorating, only to chastise my own work because it could have been better. But the bride and groom were always ecstatic when they walked into the room and rested their eyes on the fruits of my labour. Completely subjective.
We need to be focused on being the best we can be and not get lost in the absurdity of being perfect. It’s not going to happen. There are too many outside influences ready to impede our progress and make us feel like we missed the mark. But the benchmark of success can only come from our personal definition.
I know I will never be perfect – at anything. But I will continue to strive for excellence in everything I do. I would be doing myself a grave disservice if I aspired to be anything less.