A good friend of mine posted this line on her Facebook a while ago and, although I thought it odd at the time, it seemed like an interesting title for a post. I had absolutely no idea where I would go with it but figured something would strike me – and it did.
It seemed like such a bizarre thing to do, throwing rocks at airplanes (and I’m sure she probably did it), but then I realized we all need that crazy outlet – an activity that nobody else would understand, yet would make us revel in that childhood delight that makes us feel silly. So often we get lost in the grind of day-to-day life, going to work, paying the bills and just being an adult, that we forget that there is a child inside us that still needs to occasionally thrive.
There are moments that you just feel like doing something frivolous and absolutely meaningless. In the chaotic scheme of our existence, spare time is fleeting. We need to take that moment for ourselves and just – live. Breathe in the essence of that younger version of ourselves and do something completely inane.
An activity that is profoundly useless allows us that break from reality. It may not happen on a regular basis but, if given the opportunity, spend that time doing something inconsequential and completely idiotic. There are many idioms for this very practice – dawdling, killing time, hanging around – but not many people feel that they can give themselves permission to have a moment of lunacy for absolutely no reason at all. It may be exactly what the doctor ordered.
If you live somewhere that is still engaged in mid-winter, make a snow angel. If you are in a warmer climate, jump in a puddle of rainwater. Whatever it is that will satiate that moment of recklessness, grab onto it and don’t let go. Ride that wave of memories from your youth and hold on for dear life. When you allow yourself that brief moment of freedom, throwing rocks at airplanes may not seem so silly after all.