Most of us are hyper-critical of ourselves. I am certainly guilty of that crime. We are truly our own worst enemy. We over-analyse the most minute details about ourselves and never give a second thought to the perception that others may have of us – a perception that may be the polar opposite of how we see ourselves but much closer to the truth.
We have become a society of comparison. We gauge our success, or perceived failure, by how we think we measure up to those around us. We judge ourselves by their opinion and not by the standards we set for ourselves. What we fail to take into consideration is the amount of effort we put into each day by just being ourselves and how difficult that journey can be. It takes a person with a strong moral compass and courage of conviction to follow the direction in which they feel will allow them to be the most comfortable and to genuinely be themselves.
Too often we allow our actions and our decisions to be swayed by outside forces. We ignore that little voice inside our head and we succumb to the white noise around us that berates us for those actions. But that initial behavior represents our true self. Those nuances of our personality are what set us apart from every other person on this planet. Those are the things worth cherishing. Those subtleties are the little details that friends and family will hold onto long after you have left this Earth for your next journey.
It would be easy to conform into a stereotype that you feel would be welcomed by society, to make decisions that would be accepted by the masses, but you would be doing yourself a disservice if those choices were not right for you. Hold true to the things that make you who you are and know that the important people in your life appreciate the choices that you make. We all need a little daily affirmation – because you are good enough, you are smart enough, and, doggone it, people like you!