Life is about making choices. Every day we are presented with numerous situations in which we have to decide the outcome of the situation by using our instincts to make those choices.
I am certain I have made many choices that, given the chance to go back and do again, I would change at the drop of a hat. But making those choices has made me who I am today, warts and all. I learned a great deal about life and especially about myself by choosing the way I did. And I learned even more about me by giving myself permission to make the choice to choose again.
I chose to get married. It was a bad choice for me, given the circumstances, but it was a choice I needed to make to learn a very valuable lesson. After that lesson had a chance to penetrate my brain, I made the choice to not be married anymore. Some frowned on my choice without having understood how much that life was not meant for me. It was a road I needed to venture down, but it was also the path that showed me who I could be if I chose to finally put myself first. That was probably one of the first choices I ever made with only me in mind. I didn’t gauge how many others would be affected by my choice. I just chose to make myself happy without putting anyone else’s needs ahead of my own.
Just because you’ve chosen, doesn’t mean you can’t choose again. While your first choice may have seemed to be the one that was best for you, perhaps making the choice to choose again will be the choice that will make you the happiest. Life is not predictable and giving yourself permission to choose what is best for you should always be your first choice.