I was speaking to a guest of the lodge yesterday who is currently embroiled in a nasty divorce. He skimmed over a few of the distressing low-lights of his battle and said something during our conversation that really struck me. Responding to one of my remarks he said, “Hope is a dangerous thing.”
I thought about his comment for most of the morning. I carried it with me throughout my day at work. It followed me while I was delivering meals to the Food Bank and even while I was walking my dog after work. How disheartened he must feel thinking that to hope that there are good things waiting for him in his future is a treacherous slope to climb. How unfortunate that he is so skeptical of the one thing that he should embrace – hope.
Hope is not a dangerous thing. Hope is the most important thing. It is the thing that provides the light at the end of that dark tunnel. It is the thing that gives us the aspiration to dream of something better. And it is the thing that makes what we see through the windshield so much more important than what we see through the rear-view mirror.
Hope is anticipation. Hope is longing. And hope is having enough faith in our choices to think that leaving the stressful things behind allows us to carve a better path for our future.
I know that he will never see this blog post but, Richard, my wish for you is that you are eventually able to see the goodness in hope. It will support you in ways your relationship never did and it will give you the chance to have the true happiness you deserve.
I truly HOPE your friend can soon recognize your message…sometimes that’s all there is.
I should probably email him a copy of the blog. He is not a follower nor is he on my Facebook.